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  • Care for the Caregiver

    Care for the Caregiver

    Care. What does that mean? To me, it is making an individuals needs a priority. Those of us who instinctively care for others… we overlook one important person: Ourselves. As caregivers for family, we can get overwhelmed and develop “burn-out”. Lack of self-care can cause us to become overwhelmed and burnt out.

    How do we prevent being overwhelmed? I always recommend setting time aside for yourself. Time aside can be as simple as going for a walk or going out with friends. Time aside is important for emotional and mental health. Unfortunately, some individuals feel a sense of guilt when they take time for themselves. This should not be. We all needs help from time to time in our lives. When we need help, it’s hard for some people to ask. I’m also guilty of that. Here are some things that I have learned.

    1) Family and friends WANT to help, just as I want to help others. It brings me joy to help others, and I am withholding that joy from my friends by not asking for help or not allowing them to do so.

    2) It may be temporary, like having a baby or having a surgical procedure, but everyone needs help sometimes.

    3) If I am not giving myself care, then I’m not giving my best self to my friends, family, or clients. I need to be my best and healthiest self, mentally and physically.

    When families need to hire caregivers, they often feel this guilt. It is healthy to accept help in these circumstances. Take time for your hobby, exercise, or learn something new! Having help in times of need is critical to self-care.

    So, ask for help. Accept help when offered. It’s more than okay, it’s necessary. And do something for YOU today!

  • Alzheimer’s and Robotic Pets?

    Alzheimer’s and Robotic Pets?

    I’d like to share an experience from my time working at a memory care home along the seacoast. Most of the residents had some form of dementia, at varying stages, but some shared a love for the cats there. These aren’t real cats, though—they’re robotic ones you can find on Amazon. They have a soft, lifelike body that moves up and down with their “breathing” as they curl up in their bed. It’s incredible how calming they were for the residents. Unlike real pets, these cats require no care and they’re always ready for holding and petting.

    Recently, I was sent a link about robotic dogs and their potential as companions for people with Alzheimer’s Disease and other medical conditions. It’s worth checking out if you’re interested: Ask the Experts: Can a Robotic Dog Be a Companion for People Living With Alzheimer’s Disease?
    NOTE: At this time, the alzheimerscaregivers.org site is offline, so this link is to a backup on archive.org.

    Ask the Experts: Can a Robotic Dog Be a Companion for People Living With Alzheimer’s Disease? - Alzheimer's Caregivers Network

  • Check in on Senior Family and Friends

    Check in on Senior Family and Friends

    Brrrr! With the chilly weather and possible snow next week, it’s a perfect time to check in on senior neighbors who might have difficulty getting out. A quick visit to ask if they need anything can make a big difference. Heading to the grocery store? They might appreciate help picking up essentials like milk or bread. Sometimes, just a friendly reminder that they’re not alone can mean the world.

  • Alzheimer’s Signs and Symptoms

    Alzheimer’s Signs and Symptoms

    It’s still Alzheimer’s Awareness Month, so let’s discuss the signs and symptoms.

    In the early stages, a person may experience mild cognitive impairment (MCI). This can include forgetting names, appointments, or where they’ve placed items.

    In the moderate stages, the individual may need a caregiver. While they are often capable of performing daily tasks, they might require cues and encouragement to complete them independently. It is important to encourage independence when performing these tasks whenever possible as it maintains dignity while keeping their ability.

    In the late or severe stages of Alzheimer’s disease, a caregiver becomes essential. The person will need assistance and prompting for activities of daily living (ADLs), such as personal hygiene, dressing, eating, and more. At this stage, confusion, reduced awareness, and diminished physical ability become more pronounced.

    An Alzheimer’s diagnosis can be overwhelming for both the individual and their family. Providing comfort, ensuring their needs are met, and letting them know they are seen, heard, and loved is vital. This is my purpose—it’s what brings meaning to my work and feeds my soul.

  • Alzheimer’s Do’s and Don’ts

    Alzheimer’s Do’s and Don’ts

    January is Alzheimer’s Awareness Month, a time to highlight key facts and best practices for supporting individuals living with this condition. Alzheimer’s, the most common form of dementia, affects memory, thinking, decision-making, and behavior, creating significant challenges for both individuals and their families or caregivers.

    Do’s:

    • Be patient and kind; remember they are not faking their symptoms.

    • Look for fall risks such as loose area rugs, and remove them immediately.

    • Ensure they receive proper hygiene.

    • Encourage independence while being ready to assist when needed.

    • Maintain a consistent daily routine.

    • Ask simple yes-or-no questions.

    • Make eye contact when speaking to them.

    • Wait patiently for responses and listen attentively.

    • Be mindful of your body language and tone, staying calm and pleasant.

    • Provide two choices to avoid overwhelming them while giving them a sense of control (e.g., picking clothes or meals).

    • Speak respectfully, even if they don’t respond.

    • Learn about their life and history to create meaningful connections.

    Don’ts:

    • Don’t say, “Don’t you remember?”

    • Don’t interrupt or argue with them.

    • Don’t talk about them as if they aren’t present.

    • Don’t speak to them like a child.

    • Don’t tell them they are wrong or remind them of a loved one’s passing.

    • Don’t scold or use a harsh tone.

    • Don’t rearrange furniture or discard their belongings without consideration.

    • Avoid using pet names like “lovey” or “sweetie.”

    At LisaCares NH, we are dedicated to delivering compassionate, personalized care to help clients maintain dignity and quality of life. By fostering connections, honoring their personal histories, and implementing structured yet flexible routines, we work to reduce confusion and enhance comfort. LisaCares NH is committed to supporting families with education, emotional care, and practical solutions, guiding them through the journey of dementia with expertise and compassion.

  • Home Care is Crucial

    Home Care is Crucial

    As LisaCares NH LLC steps into both the business world and the year 2025, we want to take a moment to reflect on why home care is so crucial. The heart of home care lies in the simple truth that people matter. Everyone deserves compassionate, attentive care when they need it most. Whether serving as a caregiver, offering massage therapy to post-chemo patients, providing help with cooking and cleaning, or simply brightening someone’s day, our goal is to make a meaningful difference in the lives of those we serve.

  • Dementia Tip

    Dementia Tip #1- “Use it or lose it” is a saying that encourages the elderly to remain active. Encouraging the elderly to use their muscles through exercise and performing regular daily tasks keeps them strong and healthy. Sometimes we are tempted to perform duties that they can do themselves. Encouraging people to perform tasks for themselves whenever possible allows them to be independent and use those muscles.